2012 already? Blink your eyes and the time is gone..

I cannot stress enough that in this lifetime when you blink your eyes you’ll lose a year. Somewhere between the ages of 30 and 40 I missed the memo. Maybe the post office missed the letter in-between me moving so much? Who made that rule?

Creatures of habit without even knowing it..

We all have our routines. We work, we live, we eat, we enjoy, we take care of ourselves and our responsibilities as the days move on one by one. As I have always done before [without much conscious thought] I don’t make new years eve resolutions. I believe any resolution you make on the last day of the year, you should live your life always in such a manner. Clearly it’s a goal, something that would make you happy. You can follow the thought process from there. I added a fitness application to my smart phone a few days ago. Thinking I could shed the extra pounds that seem to creep up with every piece of enjoyed holiday fudge.

Fast forward to this afternoon…

I logged onto the application from the laptop instead of the smart phone. What I did not realize was that this application had logged and saved my information from the very first day of use. After poking around online I started running weight statistics and reports. To my shock and surprise, my original date of joining the site was 12/26/2010. I had no idea I’d attempted to use the app that long ago. Then I reviewed the weight last year this time versus this year. If this wasn’t a wake up call I don’t know what else could be.

This post is not about weight, or endurance, or sticking to a healthy lifestyle, or keeping new years eve resolutions. I was in shock not because of the difference in weight, but the date. Where did the year go? What happened this year in my life? Did anything change? Other than getting a year older? Or my pets getting older? I then started making a list of everything that I had experienced in the past year. My home was renovated, my pets are healthier than ever, I have gained one really close friend that I did not have, my professional life has excelled beyond my goal, and I am in a steady and solid growing relationship with an incredibly kind human being.

Where is your list?
This post is not to point out what I have experienced versus what you have. This is your wake up call to find the strength to make positive changes in your life. Our time here is limited. Find peace within yourselves and your lives, and more importantly MAKE the decision to change whatever it is that needs rearranging.

Namaste,

Sonic

You’re not wrong..

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trusting your intuition

I have a client named Jill [let's just call her that]. She has been with me for years. Darling and sweet, smart and funny, she has a really good head on her shoulders. The point of this blog is to inspire and educate. Keeping that in mind, I would like my clients to know that you must learn [you absolutely must unless you plan on me reading for you for the rest of your lives lol] to trust your instincts. It gets easier in time.

She asked me about a move [but knew inside it was where she needed to be]
*the guides gave her the green light
She asked me about suitable partners [but knew they were not right for her]
*the guides gave her the red light

These are the patterns I have with my dear girl. If it walks like a duck and it talks like a duck, IT’S A DUCK! If you continually find yourself saying “I knew it..See I told you” to yourself, then my dears please believe you know what’s best for you.

The dead really don’t care what you are wearing..

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energy, ghosts, what do the dead see

Recently I engaged in a conversation regarding the clothing of the living and what the deceased resident spirits of our dimension would/would not see from their perspective. In the land of the living, technology does not take kindly to bright or light colors. I’m no expert in the subject, but if you take a picture of a white wall with a flash, you’ll know what I’m talking about. So the open discussion was really to try to figure out what was more appealing to them, what do we [as humans] think they see, what would they gravitate towards? Light or dark clothing? I thought about it for a brief period of time. I don’t think a spirit of any sort, regardless of disposition could care less what you’re wearing. It’s the energy they see.

I have been involved with a paranormal team now for over a decade. Being sensitive isn’t a far cry from being a paranormal investigator. The dead, are the dead! Weather they’re your guides, relatives, or a native that has since passed on leaving their impression upon the space you currently occupy. If I believe that this life is all about energy, then in death I must believe the consistency carries over. I am positive they don’t mind you wearing white after labor day, but the photographers in the group would!

Namaste

I think there is a song about this..

I have a client that has literally purchased 24 readings from me over the past 3 years. I’ve been privileged to follow his life through love, loss, his profession and his education. He is bright, book smart, manic, filled with self-doubt, and unable to believe in himself to the point it hinders his potential.

One of my mantras after all these years you’ve heard before and no doubt will hear many times before your time in this dimension ends. A fool and his money are soon departed. I learned very early on that I was not his mother, his teacher or his friend. I provide guidance where I can, and my primary focus is to provide a message. The last reading request was about a month ago. I found myself putting it off, and putting it off and putting it off. Not because I was particularly busy, or distracted, or too lazy. The reality is I dreaded giving him [yet again] more bad news. That is part of being the messenger. Mentally and emotionally I was spent. There is no need to beat anyone over the head with the clue stick like a child being scolded in the south with a perfectly picked switch from a tree out back. So I refunded his money, I apologized and advised that he wait a few months before asking me anything else.

What is the lesson in all of this? Ah yes the song.. “you can’t always get what you want”. If that were the case we’d all be rich, happy and comfortable in our individual lives. Even money can’t bring you want you want at times. This was one of those times.

Your lesson of the day? Be the frog..drop the baggage or you won’t be able to hop onto the next lily pad. If you stop, you will sink, and you will die. Only to choose to return and fulfill the rest of the lesson where you left off. Death is like a souls bookmark. It’s just a nano second in between dimensional experiences.

Ask and ye shall receive

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energy in the home, feng shui, livng in a stress free environment

1. Put a piece of citrine in your wallet. This brings constant energy and currency flowing back to you, and it will ensure you are never without funds.
2. Place a piece of black quartz outside of your bedroom [any black stone will do], as this will divert negative energy away from the threshold and keep it from entering.
3. Keeping a cluttered house kills growth and prevents energy from flowing. Look around you, if you live in confusion, and you surround yourself with it daily, is it really a wonder why certain situations continue to come about?
4. Living well has nothing to do with your own personal and emotional hangups. You need to build a bridge and get over it. You are not a victim [and if you are by all means PLEASE find a way to get out of the situation]. Situations past YES have shaped your current state of who you are but they do not define your status. Break out from the stereotype and lead, do not follow. Even if you are a party of one walking alone on the path, you can’t get anywhere unless you make the effort to move forward. One step, that’s all you need, just one.
5. Keeping neutral colors in the bathroom such as blues, sandstone, creams or whites make it a place of serenity and counter balance the water flow in this room. Contrary to belief even though water is a conductor of electricity it also steals the lifeline throughout the home. Shut the bathroom doors, close the toilet seat lid in your home. These small measures will help keep the positive flow throughout the house.

Home exercise

Walk into your front door, notice what you do each day. All of us have a pattern. Write the pattern down [right now] on a sheet of paper. Where do you go? Where do you walk? Do you take the same path each day? Why is that? Look to the other direction-do you see another way to turn or walk? Why is it do you think you walk in that particular way? I’ll tell you why Because that is the pattern of the energy in your home. Does a piece of bulky furniture or lack of a light source in a room stop the flow? Is your furniture closed and boxed off to prevent movement? You don’t need an empty apartment, you just need a light and easy way to allow the natural flow to progress throughout the home.

Start moving around your things, picking up clutter from the floor. Placing those dark colors elsewhere throughout the house, creating shape and pattern with your wall photo frames. Do they follow a pattern? or have you cluttered them all up in one section somewhere? When you look at your wall do you often think “gee they’re all crowded what can I do with these?”. Your gut is telling you something, start listening to it!

Time for a change again..

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Tao Te Ching, todays lesson

Time and Life are bedfellows you know. There are only a few facts known about the pair. The first is that they wait for no one. The second is that they will always move on. With or without you.

Today’s Bibliomancy lesson comes from my beloved Tao of Pooh.

“The feeling on me grows and grows
That hardly anybody knows
If those are these or these are those.

On Wednesday, when the sky is blue,
and I have nothing else to do,
I sometimes wonder if it’s true
That who is what and what is who”

Very fitting on a day like today. I spent an hour at the local botanical gardens this morning. Walking around and viewing the change. Amidst the decay and transformation, pure color still exists in its vibrant state. Just another sign that life exists even when death surrounds it.

Dusting off the cobwebs

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manifestation, universal will

I knew eventually I would get back to basics, and after a long pause, here I am. In the past month, I have seen an overwhelming response out of the clear blue for readings. It’s that time I guess. With every season change, new people find their way to me. I was even contacted by a woman for a personal account of a skin care product I wrote about on the blog so many years ago. I do hope my recommendation helped her!

I was never gone, just sleeping. So old friend, tell me what’s new? Have you worked out yet another of life’s mysteries? I saw a movie last night while channel surfing through my roku box channel selector. It was called Stranger than fiction with Will Farrell. What a fantastic few hours of how things you only believe to be untrue, are actually tangible just by creating them in ones mind.

That is your food for thought today.. think it wish it dream it say it.. it will come.

Namaste

It’s been a long time..

Since my last post. My clients are at a slow rumble waiting for the seasonal change. We are on the heels of spring. I need to remind you to be like the frog. You cannot continue to hop from one lily pad to the next carrying around last years baggage. Eventually you will slow yourself. What happens when a heavy toad stops on a lily pad my friends? You will sink lol. You know it, I know it. Try to shed the excess baggage. Be it past relationships, past worries, or past mistakes. I’m learning this now, with the help of a friend. It’s one thing to talk about it, but it’s another to still feel the pains. Build a bridge and get over it.

Make room in your life for something new and exciting. I’m going to try to take myself and everything else less seriously this year. He has taught me in a brief amount of time that I dearly love to laugh, yet don’t do it enough. I have bob the builder to thank for that.

Namaste

The KIF Project

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acts of kindness, kindness is free, the KIF project by Sonic

The KIF project is something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately, for the past few years in fact. It works on the same principals as paying it forward. Except that this project isn’t based on someone elses good deeds, or sparked because someone did something good for you. It will be projected BECAUSE of you, by you, every week, once a week, for the rest of your lives.

KIF stands for kindness is free. It doesn’t matter why, or how, who or where. Pick one day of the week. Pick one act, pick one subject matter be it the environment, a neighbor or a loved one.

One idea
One day
One act of kindness

That’s all it takes, and it begins with you. I have incorporated the KIF mentality into the fabric of my every day life. My family and friends are the benefactors. Making one person smile counts! It’s not about money, materialism, or self fulfillment. If you could be anonymous and do one thing in your life for someone or better the environment what would you do?

Would you recycle just one garbage bag? or a metal can? What impact would it make on this earth if one million people recycled just one soda can a week?

Big results, small deeds, just you.

Namaste

I hear you all the time

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life is good

Things around the wood shop have slowed to a crawl this season. I am hoping for the best, and taking the ‘clients are in a good place’ stance on that one lol. Not only that but it’s really the winter/spring when everyone feels like renewing themselves. I’ve had some time this season to catch up and actually FINISH my projects at home. Renovations are done, landscaping is done, and I [dare to dream] have even begun a healthy relationship with a very kind hearted like mind soul that even I can’t believe at times. I am still in contact with spirits from the other side, mainly children. How I encounter their presence is quite another story. My professional life is good. My home life is good. My familial and friendships are going strong, ticking away like they should. It’s a weird timing in the cosmic calendar, and I for one will not rock the boat.

How is your life going?
Namaste